![]() ![]() So, let’s talk about BDSM checklists!Ī BDSM checklist is a tool that BDSM practitioners of any experience level can use to lay out preferences, boundaries, kinks, fetishes, the activities they like (or are curious about) and more. It can help you be clear on what you want and how you want it and to communicate that effectively. If it’s true for stuff like grocery shopping, moving, DIY projects, and even vacations, why wouldn’t it be true for our sex lives? A BDSM checklist can be an amazing way to explore, communicate, and experiment. ![]() It is not as extensive as Bex Caputo’s or Scarleteen’s list, but it does offer a look at what a colourful and engaging Y/N/M list could look like.When you’re planning anything, checklists can be an invaluable way to make sure you do everything you want to do. I found this list to be very engaging because of its design. The cool feature of Autostraddle’s Y/N/M list is that it is actually a set of worksheets that are quite visually appealing. The lists consider positions in giving and receiving and ask how frequently one wants to feel a particular emotion: often, sometimes, or never. Caputo explores a few options: Yes – Into, Yes – Willing, Maybe, No. It asks what kind of activities one wants to explore what one want to be called in bed what kind of emotions one want to feel while engaging in sex and kink. It’s quite exhaustive because it covers sex, kink, language, and feelings. There is one for those who are “vanilla” and want to explore their sexuality.īex Caputo’s Superpowered Yes/No/Maybe List.īex Caputo’s Y/N/M list is a bit different from the other ones on this list. Sexuality educator and pleasure advocate Sunny Megatron shares two Y/N/M lists in the link above. ![]() Often, these little details are overlooked when people engage in intimacy, so it’s great that Scarleteen’s checklist dives into some of these finer details. ![]() Scarleteen’s sexual inventory checklist is very thorough and covers a lot of ground as it discusses body boundaries such as boundaries about direct eye contact. Scarleteen’s Yes/No/Maybe So: A Sexual Inventory Checklist. They are great places to start conversations and, when you get more experience with them, you can create your own! Here are some Yes/No/Maybe checklists you can take a look at. Respect, consent and ongoing communication with each other are key points here.
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